Child rescue operation-2006

 someone’s plight other's woe !

(No one gets concerned for others cause. In fact, every person has his/her own reason for anxiety.)

Agra, March 26, 2008 (IANS) Three-year-old Vandana, who fell into a 50-foot deep bore well shaft in a village near here, was pulled out of the pit after day long rescue efforts. Vandana, from Tehra village in Saiyan block of Agra, fell into the uncovered cylindrical pit near her home. Army personnel, police and fire brigade experts worked hard throughout the day to save the girl, Crew of several TV channels had descended on this small village, tracking every move of the army and police officials. The marathon telecast of the news almost united the whole country. The every viewer of the live telecast seemed concerned from the bottom of the heart.

The whole country was found glued to news channels for 50 hours on 21st July 2006 when media started telecasting the live coverage about a 5 years old little boy from Kurukshetra who fell into a narrow 60 ft deep pit. This kind of non-stop 50 hours marathon telecast for a boy’s life was one of the rare experiences of my life. The rescue mission took hours and hours and hours and hours. People were restless observing the little kid trapped in a small hole. Army was actively working. Cranes were arranged. Every activity and plan of digging a parallel well and then tunnel to reach the boy was being shown. With the help of a small camera Prince was made visible on T.V. monitor. Fan was arranged and bulb was hung in the pit. Oxygen pipe was inserted too in the pit. Prince was the only topic of discussion among media channels. Media men were observed screaming-“ He is breathing…wonder what’s he thinking…what a brave, courageous boy…. he moves a little…see his leg has stirred…. hand moving…now he has moved a bit…people have been camping here for hours…Prince’s parents were there…. right here…. everyone here is concerned about Prince…messages are pouring from all over the country for safety and welfare of Prince…his mother is unconsoled” People were praying for his life across the country. Best wishes and sympathy were pouring out from every corner of India. People near the pit were shown praying from the depth of their heart-“ab chhod diya sab bhar tumhaare charno me…(O God, we have now left everything on you… and we are at your mercy)”The whole country was watching T.V. and concerned about Prince. Hindus were shown performing puja and moselman were shown offering Namaz and Christians were shown praying in churches. The endless repetitions of the story continued till he was rescued. Kids were seen cutting cakes and celebrating the labour’s boy’s birthday. Few of my relatives from remote places shared the experience over phones. People burst crackers to express their joy when the poor boy was rescued. Whether it was Star News or Zee News, Sahara Samaya or Channel 7, Prince’s rescue operation eclipsed everything-but everything. The media channels were rewarded by the unprecedented TRPs they no doubt sought when they decided on this unprecedented coverage. Lakhs of SMSs too benefited the mobile services. A dozen blasts could have probably taken place in Srinagar but none of the Channel would have blinked. People were seen uninterested inquiring news related to post Mumbai Blasts episode. Media ignored the reports of increasing suicide rate of farmers in Vidrabha due to failing crops. I wondered ….I amazed….it sounded incredible….but it was true that In India where crores of helpless neglected kids are observed begging in streets and lakhs die due to shortage of proper medical facilities and callousness of irresponsible government hospitals’ staff, a kid made the people wept across the country. In the true sense of his name he really became a “Prince”.
It is difficult to predict when, where and which event can attract the masses and stir public’s Sentiments and emotions overwhelmingly. At times public unexpectedly can be seen worrisome for a meager event neglecting comparatively drastically worth noticing incident. I remember during Kargil war the whole country was observed concerned over the capturing of two Air Force Officers by Pakistan Army. People were annoyed over this and wanted the rulers to take conclusive steps against Pakistan. There were many who claimed that they would have destroyed the whole Pakistan to get their people back had they been in the ruling authority. The whole country turned patriotic and emotions were pouring out. There concern for two Indians baffled me considerably. I never found people too concerned for their grief stricken neighbors or rushing for help to any passerby in trouble or extending helps for deprived and underprivileged Indian peoples. There is innumerable news of people proving mute spectators when some innocent person was being resorted to torture and brutality by goons.
I like narrating an event about Abraham Lincoln in many of my lectures. Once, Abraham, riding on a horse was going around the forest in search of a prey. He was wearing a new and expensive suit that day. He happened to notice a pig stuck in swamp. The pig was desperately striving hard to move out of the swamp but every time he slipped back into the swamp. Lincoln realized the whole situation and went ahead to render assistance. An intensive desire to get the pig relieved of the plight generated strongly. With the help of whip and horse he pulled the pig out of the swamp. He felt as if he had relieved himself from a great burden. The innocent pig thanked him by flapping the ears and splashing mud on his expensive new suit. Lincoln latter confessed to one of his friends that by saving a pig’s life he in fact made himself relieved from the grief that grappled him seeing the pig in trouble.
Many of the listeners hurl several queries on Abraham Lincoln’s contradictory nature. How could the person who was searching a prey be compassionate to a pig? How could a person be both kindhearted as well as cruel to animals at the same time?
I am from a staunch vegetarian family. I was brought up in such an environment where non-vegetarian people were negligible. During childhood I had natural strong compassion for animals and highly sensitive for poor, old, down trodden and helpless. I could never tolerate people beating street dogs and cattle mercilessly. Two such incidents of beating animals created strong impact on my tender mind. Once, I witnessed a street dog being beaten almost to death by a drunkard man as the dog barked and chased his son. My heart tore in pieces seeing a helpless lying dog receiving uncountable thumping of thick and hard wooden planks mercilessly till his bones broken to bits. Similarly, I can refresh the agony I underwent seeing a cow being driven away by canning strongly at her stomach and poor cow rushing bellowing. It was first month of 1990 when I, for the first time saw an innocent little creature being killed mercilessly for food. It was a cock with both the legs tied that gave a helpless cry before his neck got separated from his limb. I could not sleep for several nights and kept on pleading peoples to stop cruelty on animals. I could realize the anguish of Siddharatha (Buddha) he underwent when he observed a fateful bleeding swan that became the aim of the arrow hurled by his cousin brother. I wanted people to convince me against this cruelty and sought scientific justification for this killing to get myself relieved from the anguish for several days. But all their logics and justification proved futile to console me. The most common justification of the people was equating these killing with cutting of the plants. They shrugged my question saying, “ vegetarians too are cruel as they kills plants for eating” In fact their logics were too shallow to justify killing of animals. I understand that we, human beings have natural instinct to feel the cry, emotions, pain or agony of living beings. I am sure that every child has compassion for living beings. It’s we who make our children immune to such natural realizations and convert them vegetarians to non-vegetarians. In the case of plants, human beings are not naturally gifted with the ability to feel plants’ pain, emotions and realize their agony (if there is any). Moreover, unlike animals plants are not observed rushing or struggling to save their lives or writhing in pains. Unlike animals human beings raise different plants or crops in different seasons. One of my friends confessed that his four-year daughter raised uproar and cried hysterical when she saw a goat being butchered for the first time. She was with her father at the meat shop when he ordered for fresh meat. I learnt that oldest human’s remains (Lucy’s 34 lakh year old skeleton) made scientist to conclude that earlier human was vegetarian by nature. I wonder, what made human beings to turn non-vegetarian?
Once in my primary class a teacher narrated a story of Mahatama Gandhi. We were told - “on seeing a small puppy trapped in mud Gandhi rushed to help him. Gandhi not only took him away from the mud but also he cleaned the puppy under a water tap”. The teacher wanted us to convince that only a great people like Gandhi could have such kind of pity on animals. Like several other kids I wondered how this event could be attributed to greatness of a person, as every one would have done the same if he were at the place of Gandhi. On many occasion teachers are found ignorant of child’s psychology. They peep through any event as par their own vision or understanding and glorify the legendry personalities by exaggerating their insignificant and ordinary act. In fact, kids are inherently sensitive of other’s pain and animals’ misery. Many of us who are accustomed of unnatural activities like hunting or killing of animals for food too get their natural sensitivity against other creatures’ plight triggered now and then. The moment their natural sense gets awaken they feel like to help others. Abraham Lincoln who was after a prey suddenly got his instinctive nature stimulated for a while and he struggled passionately to relieve the pig from his plight. Similarly, in Prince’s episode the little boy’s unending trauma became the part of people’s misery. They were restless seeing the innocent little kid in the sixty feet deep narrow pit crying and striving for life. They were relieved from their pain after the boy was rescued.

Media advertises sexual incidents prominently at the pretext of social concern

On 15th August a case of murder of a man (Ansari) against a woman is registered in the police station of Mumbai. The decease’s family alleged that it was a pre-planned murder. "Zakir is my sister's son and we have been embroiled in a property dispute for the past 10 years. My sister had once alleged assault on her for which, I was arrested. The case is still pending in court,'' said Ansari's father, Yusuf. According to him, Zakir and his wife had got Ansari drunk and killed him when he lost consciousness. He added that Ansari left home around 11 pm on Thursday. "The police were called around 4 am, but they told us about the murder at 6 am. The police did not even allow us to see the body,'' said Yusuf, ruling out the possibility of an extra-marital relationship between his son and the woman. On the contrary the murderer has told the police that Ansari knocked on her door around 3 am at night and barged in; threatening her with a knife, he took her to a solitary place in the slum locality and raped her. She allegedly slit his throat. The husband of the woman who works as a driver of a cop informed about the incident to police. Before the matter is investigated by the police and truth is disclosed or the case is decided in the court the media was quick enough to give his judgement. All the reputed newspaper published the news with the heading ‘Woman slits throat of rapist” The version of the woman sounded more appalling and appealing than to the statements of decease’s family to all newspapers

On July 8, 2008 an event eclipsed cover pages of almost all the newspapers. The newspapers published an incident of clash between a couple and few minor boys over spiting by the lady on the youths. The clash turned into a serious turn by the intervention of police. The couple complained of assault and rape to the police and the police booked the accused till the confirmation by the medical report. The different versions of stories are floating in the locality. Before the investigators reached to any conclusion many of the newspapers published with bold titles ‘a pregnant woman raped by six youths”
Few days back an almost nude photos of few celebrities were seen on the cover page of the supplement of a prominent newspaper at the pretext of coverage on the “cover page of certain magazines” such as “Play boy”
The photos of love-couples in compromising position at public places can be seen on the cover page of the many of the prominent newspapers now and than at the pretext of describing either “the plight of public places” or “the disorientated youth” or “decline of cultural values” etc. etc.
The well-known historical photo of youth molesting women on the eve of New Year at Juhu has acquired the prestigious place in the archive collection of media’s diary and can be seen repeatedly in almost all the news media publications. The rape news gets headlines in every prominent newspaper. The news is given prominence coverage at the cover page. The media, not to reflect agony of the victim but to attract masses adds the elements of sensationalizations in such news. If a model’s top slips accidentally the media feel privileged in detailing the incident meticulously to the unaware masses and shed crocodiles tears as if the media is very much anxious about the modesty of women and sends the message that such kind of events require much more concern then the problems of bread and water of the soil’s sons. It’s approach is almost and every time voyeuristic. Media is well aware that sex related incidents are most saleable items than any other news. Common public hardly knows about the MMS and its function. But it is media that (inspite of under playing the message) considerably harm the reputation of the victim women by propagating and spreading the news to the common folks. At one hand it shows concern about the harm caused to the poor and innocent victim by the propagation through MMS and on the contrary it widely publicize the message and proves instrumental in creating the curiosity amidst common unaware masses. The photos of girls and boys holding hands or getting intimate in public places get prominent space in prominent magazines/dailies not to reflect concern of the misuse of public places but to attract readers. Had they been unequivocally concerned to such indecent events they would have ignored the photos and the message could have been published in a decent and indirect language rather than splitting the hair. In many cases widely published sensational old news of rape is repeated overwhelmingly as reference while depicting a current such news of rape as if the media was desperate for an opportunity to encash the previous news. Almost all the magazines has column for Q & A at the pretext of reader’s problems. These can be rightly described as a source of second hand voyeurism. Big celebrities are there to sort out readers’ problem (which are dominantly sex related problems). Almost all of the agony aunts (columnist) are neither trained psychologist nor professional sexologist and even they are not sufficiently qualified for the task. It’s irony that the important and serious messages/advertisements regarding causes of AIDS are publicized with great care and delicacy in a very indirect language whereas the mode of rape and event of sexual assault is described meticulously and bluntly. This is obviously a matter of double standard/double speak. Almost all the magazines are encashing handsomely over sex-related columns at the pretext of providing knowledge of sexuality and educating ignorant youths against meaningless traditional taboo about sexuality. In many alleged rape cases the complainant is forced to frame charges against an innocent person or the case complained for was not actually a rape in its true sense. But the media is too obsessed to propagate the desired news as par its angle, which can attract the readers. It the accused is later released, the media never came to confess its mistakes/blunder and the media will either hide the news or reflect as if the accused has been released owing to inaction from the part of judiciary and give expressions as if the victim is left to suffer. Media believes in possessing both the side of the coin and use them as par its facilities.

Whenever an event of similar nature will occur The reminders of following news will keep on dominating the headlines of the media repeatedly: -
“Kiss related incidents that will keep on repeating to the generations to come”
(There was time when Indians did not kiss in movies; only flower petal did.)

· Devika Rani’s long and lingering kiss in the 1933 film “Karma” with Himanshu Rai, her real-life mate, shocked the prudes out of their wits.
· That kiss remained in the museum of memory for many decades.
· (Those were the days when, “what after the kiss?” was the starting point of tingling erotic imagination.

· Raj Kapur kissing the Russian actress, Kseina Rambiankina, in Mera Naam Jokar only reiterated the point that Indian girls were not for kissing.

· The 80s and 90s might have opened the floodgates for the kiss in cinema, but in real life it was still the best peg for a controversy.

· When Padmini Kolhapure gave India’s royal guest, Prince Charles, a peck on his cheek in the 1980’s, the media turned it into a morality debate. Just as the world thought that Indian girls were not for kissing, Kolhapure assumed every white man could be kissed. Little did the adolescent know that royalty must not be touched, leave alone be kissed.

· When Khushwant Singh kissed the daughter of the then Pakistani high commissioner, Ashraf Jehangir Qazi, his grandfatherly gesture further jinxed the tenuous India-Pakistan relationship. Qazi rushed back to Islamabad to apologize, while Khushwant Singh carried on, without malice.

· There was some heartburn even when Shabana Azmi gave Nelson Mandela a “freedom kiss”.

· Latter, Indian cinema, constantly battling censor board’s sharp scissors, Karishma Kapoor’s liplock in the 1996 film “Raja Hindustani” rekindled fire for ten minutes

· The kiss reached Mallika Sherawat and serial killer Emran Hashami in 2004, no one was counting.

· Mika pressed his luck. A typical north Indian bullying trait. Rakhi amounted it to molestation.

· Richard Garry kisses Shilpa Shetty

· Kiran Majumdar Shah, the BIOCON, CEO and Vasundhara Raje, the CM of Rajasthan greet each other by kissing

(Liplock was first also observed prominently in Indian cinema in “fasale” hero kissing debutant (perhaps) faraha)
The media seems always privileged to advertise sexuality at the pretext of depicting art or reflecting concern over the following issues

The Vagina Monologues- it is an award winning and widely plyaed episodic play depiciting women's sexual taboos/sex-related anxiety.
Kamasutra and Indian art of sex
Incestuous love
Virginity test and taboos
Nudity and painting
Love in old age
Teenagers and sex
Adolescent sex
The facts and myths abut sex
Woman on top
Bold new breed/generation
Internet and pornography
Breast feeding
Lesbianism/homosexuality
Sex and the married Indian
Extra marital relationship
Prostitution
Gay relationship
Red light area
Rape
Sex in Cinema
Woman raped by husband
........also read the coming blog 'sex in the name of art'

Is "Astrology" sham or science?

(Throughout the centuries, people have looked to the stars to help them navigate across open oceans or featureless deserts, know when to plant or harvest, and preserve their myths and folklore. Ancient people used the appearance and disappearance of certain stars over the courses of each year to mark the changing seasons. To make it easier to “read” this celestial calendar, they grouped the brightest stars into readily available recognizable shapes, the constellations. )

There is no doubt that the ancient men were well accustomed of stargazing. The appearance and disappearance of any prominent or easily visible star must have put them into utter bewilderment and confusion. With the passage of time they became conscious about the appearance and disappearance of the bigger or prominent stars in the due course of time. Latter, they grouped the brightest stars into readily available recognizable shapes i.e. constellations. The appearance of certain star or planetary configuration with a coincidental catastrophe forced the certain ancient tribe to blame the planetary configuration for the happening of the tragedy. Soon the humanity created a mindset regarding auspiciousness or inauspiciousness occasions with regards to planetary configurations or appearance and disappearances of stars. The devastating first ancient world war during Mahabharata must have reminded the stargazers about the appearance of comet and indiscriminate meteorites during the birth of Duryodhana, the main perpetrator of the war. Many ancient draught or devastating situations must have occurred during certain solar eclipses as even today many people consider solar eclipse an indication to a forthcoming devastation. The tendency of relating planetary configuration with forthcoming events or human tragedies must have developed in the humanity in ancient time.

Diwali is an occasion of utter darkness. It is the darkest period of the year that falls on the Amavasya (new moon day) of Hindu month of Kartik. It synchronizes with the harvesting period. The people had their fruit of months long hard work to reap on the occasion. It would have been highly desirable to the people to remain awaken and entire area lighted throughout the night, as the goons would take opportunity to steal the crops in the utter darkness. Hence, the Diwali is the festival of lights and people like to remain awaken whole night. With the passage of time the festival was attributed with several other prominent incidents coincidently synchronizing with the occasion. The return of Lord Rama after the completion of the period of 14 years of exile is attributed with the occasion. Similarly, Bodh Jayanti, Gurunanak Jayanti and Maharvir Jayanti are also related with the festival. The festival seems to be dated back to pre Ramayana era.

The American Doctors in Florida have noticed that when the Moon is in its second quarter some patient bleed upto twice as much during operation. The psychologists as well as many scientists have observed that the number of suicide cases increases by many fold during/or near full moon day. The Monday is the day when the peoples are much more stressful then other days of the week. The frequency of the casualty and accidents are more on Monday than others days of the week. The Hindu Chaitra month (first month of Hindu calendar) is very important month in the whole year. Many great anniversaries and other occasions are found occurred in the month. Ram Jayanti, Mahavir Jayanti, Hanuman Jayanti, Holi, Shivaji Jayanti, Ganesh Shankat Chauth, Rang Punchami, Shitlashtami, Bhagavat Ekadashi, Ambedakar Jayanti., Parshuram Jyanti, Gangaur, Maharana Pratap ajaynti, Boddh Jayanti, Subhash Ajyanti, Shri Paunchami, vasant Panchami, Easter, Id-e-Milad, Vishu, Bihu, vaishakhi, etc all occur Falgun to Jyeshtha months, The Saturn’s certain position brings tremendous effect in the lives of human beings. The Saturn completes one revolution around the Sun once in 18 years and around all the zodiac signs in 30 years. These two years are very important years in human life for various transformational changes. It cannot be ignored that every person is born with a defined and certain planetary configuration, which makes the person unique in the world. The personality and growth of the person goes into changes with the changing positions of the configuration. There has to be certain fix relation in respect of these changes relative to these configurations. Could we ever be able to read this relationship between planetary configurations and human’s life? Every event/incidents whether decided/desired/planned or occurred accidentally or coincidently has a previous event’s effect or carry forward of the previous incident. This previous event had another previous event’s effect or every event has a pre event. Which was the first (beginning) event? Every event seems the effect of the previous cause. That’s every incident has a cause in the past. If we try to touch a hot object…there has to be a hot object…or an event which made the object hot…or a desire to make the object hot and its applications…prior to this there has to be object…prior to this there must be some one to bring the object…moreover an event to create the object…. if we say that we have done it (touching of the object) by mere a casual thought…. then prior to this there must be a cause of that particular desire i.e. the motive…. and the inspiration for the motive…and so on…if there was some cause prior to every ensuing activity then there must be some beginning which had happened when we were not even created…or we are the part of these long unending sequences…a chain of sequences are already there…we are nothing but to move forward as desired by the destiny. Or we are just here to be the next loop of the chain. The biologists believe that the attraction towards to opposite sex is utterly chemical and it’s chemistry of the body, which pursues a person to feel attraction for a certain person. Now, the question is whether the chemical play the prominent roll in pulling or moving towards an opposite sex or it’s opposite sex which stimulates or titillates the chemicals required to feel the pangs of love. What’s the root cause of this motivation of love after all? To feels a strong and intensive lust for a certain person one has to pass through a sequences of events and each event has its root of cause in the previous event and likewise. E.g. The event in which a person meets to someone accidentally at some place where he visited unexpectedly or for certain reason and feels pangs of lust for him/her has had undergone of unlimited incidents and the root of which has to be explored in the past before the big bang occurred. Hence, the theory of “at random life” falls inverted flat on the ground. Everything is certain and fixed. The root of every new event is at the previous event. It seems the genuine question that there had to be some thing that had attracted the attention of Indian (and other old civilization) seers towards planetary configuration and its relation with some one’s life…- Does the things bearing resemblance to each other cause similar effect or workable for the similar cause? “Like cures like” is the principal for primitive medication. This could have been out of natural intuition or would have been spontaneous. E.g. dhatura, Aak, Kashi fal, nandi bull, kalash with coconut and mango leaves resemble to shiva lingam or vagina and also the shankha, chakra, gada, paduma resemblece to shakti, vagina and hence these make important part of worship or ritual ceremony. In Hindu astrology the Sun represents to energy, potentiality, life and tej. It cannot be ignored mere by saying it has nothing to do with the science. Either we are unable to decipher the language fully or we could understand an aspect of the code partially. We can understand the graph of our life by comparing a great legends recorded life i.e. by observing the gap of the duration with the legend and calculating accordingly e.g. How old we were when he died? How was our condition when we were born/married or achieved any remarkable thing as par his graph of life

Envy and Enmity

Envy is the root cause of every common and unusual problem.

All kinds of enmity can be cope up or tackled or smoothened or cool down but the complications created out of envy are almost irreparable and irretrievable. Not of foes but beware of your friends and acquaintances nourishing envy against you. An enemy challenging openly can be dealt with and over come strategically but any rivalry or unsound situation erupted of envy cannot be managed and tackled easily. In fact the lock of envy is without a key whereas enmity have multiple keys to cope up with. Acquaintances nourishing envy always like to see you in devastating situation without any fault of yours. They quite often exaggerate your ignorable shortcomings and always tend to elaborate your trivial lapses happened owing to inevitable circumstances and undermine your worth noticing achievements. They can any time over react and come heavily on you for the cause only known to them. The person with meager achievements always fall envy of you and strive hard for a shield to defend him/her. Such kind of persons always uses their cunning innovative skill in searching the ways of putting you down and low. It’s too easy to justify one’s own wrongs and blunders but it’s too difficult to justify others for their lapses. It’s common and natural to find faults in others and ignore own wrongs. Person criticizing others overwhelmingly is actually exploring a shield in disguise to hide his own faults. Peoples are found now and then scratching others faults and frequently remain indulged in severe criticism of others. They are in fact those who need a shield to cover their own faults and want people to divert their attention from their failures. A successful person will hardly involve in such senseless criticisms. A positive thinker always keeps himself engaged in searching opportunities to improve his personality rather than exploring the modes to criticize others. An envious person can get hurt if you happen to prove dominating and appealing amidst any gathering and he can unexpectedly come up heavily on you raising baseless queries and create chaos in the smooth running meeting. The man feeling jealous of you can put you into bewilderment by insulting or undermining you on matters considered worth complimentary. The praise worthy achievements are either ignored or undermined by the man feeling jealous of you. He can put you in utter confusion by hurling words of severe criticism for your praise worthy achievements.

The old story of “A man, his son and a donkey” is every time relevant for such kind of peoples. They like to look down upon you if they find you too engage in your work and will be too quick to pass remark, “What’s the use of money if family suffers company?” On the contrary, if you take due care of your family again the envious has his words of criticism to fling, “What a shame always sticking to woman (wife)…too womanish” You can never satisfy the man envious against you. They are always tending to take the benefit of you till your last drop of blood is absorbed but remain constantly too alert to repay it. They always expect you to take their every evil intended action positively but they brand every gracious and sincere step of yours immature or unthoughtful or full of selfishness. They are always attentive to poke their nose in the matters hardly related to them. They are too fanatical to hold themselves up to hide their envy and quicken to pass undesired comments visibly underrating you. They expect you to recognize and overrate their link with a relative of a friend whose brother is President’s P.A. and like to underrate your direct communication with the President. Their reaction (overreaction) is unpredictable and awesome. They disturb you considerably and destroy your creativity by their unsound utterances. They can spoil your relationship with others simply because they cannot tolerate your closeness with them. They always feed you with negativity against others who are otherwise maintaining sound relationships with you. They are too possessive of you for nothing. They can break or cut short your smooth going music played by you efficiently and may ask you to stop this as they find it mistuned or have got their head ache or got to make few urgent calls. Scary of your remarkable personality and noticeable achievements they always remain in the strong grip of insecurity and avoid appearances of their spouse, fan or friends or lovers before you. They are too alert to admire you in the circle of their acquaintances. They are too protective and sensitive against the fragile fence of fake achievements they have created around them to attract their spouse, fan or friends or lovers and keep them remote from the smell of your worth noticing genuine creative and constructive activities.

Irrespective of their low academic qualification they have stamina to challenge highly qualified and efficient persons. They are too courageous to criticize the language of an eminent linguist and suggest him the way of improvement in language. or direct a pilot about the technique of taking off. They are too enthusiastic to suggest guidelines for personality development to a successful and efficient psychologist. Though they are too impatient, obsessive, morally low and highly intolerant but they want you to accept them as a model of patience, tolerance, morality and a man of values. They now and then indulge in hot arguments with you with irrational attitude over trivial matters but brand you as “immature, irrelevant arguer, impossible to crack, unrelenting person.” They like to put their feelings and sayings before you straightforward and bluntly but never expect you to answer these. They hurl a long series of irrelevant queries without allowing you to clear your position or doubts. They always expect you to be transparent to them but they themselves are of dubious nature and maintain double standard in their life. You may come across few of your close relatives who are two offensive for no fault of yours. In fact, they are too defensive and fearful of being exposed of their evil-attitude against you and quick enough weaving a cover to hide their blunders. They like you to put down before their close ones or spouse and have a long list of justifications against their irrational approach that has caused you substantial damage. You will never find such person in a grip of feeling of guiltiness. They will never come up confessing their slipups and errors that have proved fatal to you or your close one. Being in your blood relationship they can have sympathy seeing you in great trouble and feel pity of you but will have contrary views as you arise up from the adversary and reach to better circumstances. They have pleasure in showering sympathy when you are facing an adversary but will never like you to recover to a better stage than theirs. There may be persons who are extremely compassionate in your adversaries but too intolerant and envious to your success.

There are certain tips to judge whether your friend is envious or not?

· If he/she says wants to cut you short in the ongoing argument saying, “really you are too rigid in your stand or inspite of entangling in argument why don’t you accept whatever I’m saying or you’re horrible and hard nut to crack?” –This kind of utterances cannot be from a decent, sober and intelligent person. A creative and genuine-debater understands that the every relevant discussion is the part of exchange of views in a democratic set up. Every party has got their unique stand and finds their respective stand right and others’ wrong. A person with average knowledge, lack of patience and low morale can have this kind of attitude. They (many times) fling sequences of irrelevant questions (which has no connection with the topic of debate) without waiting the answer from the opposite parties.
· If some one wants to conclude the discussion saying, “I wonder what you consider to yourself…you’re nothing before me…” This can never be the part of a healthy discussion. Above saying reflect that the party was not serious enough to discover the facts out of discussion but his sole motive was to prove his stand right. Such kind of people can go to any extent to prove their stand right. A debate is a constructive solution to sort out difference in opinions and find a suitable and most acceptable solution rather than putting some one down. Debate has provided many constructive solutions to the humanity.
· To comment on any person’s attitude, personality, nature and characters can never be the part of a creative debate. It’s the stage of submission of the party lacking logics and relevant points to prove his/her stand. A person
· A person with logics and sound background never uses any kind of hurting utterances and hurl remark on any individual’s characters and nature while argument in on. His sole motive lies in putting rational logics candidly against his point of view rather than putting some one down by hurling irrelevant remarks on someone’s nature and characters.
· The reminders of previous incidents (with the sole motive to put some one down), which are utterly irrelevant with the ongoing debate, can never be a part of a healthy and creative debate. The motive of using such kind of irrelevant examples is to get the debate deviated from its real subject

We know every occurrence going to happen !

(Living beings have intitutive power against events yet to occur. Sounds bizarre and uncanny? But these are wonderful and helpful tips in practical life)

Human being’s brain is very instinctive. It’s of intuitive nature. We are every time made alert for every unwanted and undesired accidents or unpleasant circumstances prior to their occurrences. We have got accustomed of an artificial materialistic life style in such a manner that we ignore these signals frequently. In fact, we have gone deaf against these alert-making messages. We are no more able to read these alert-signals and lost the inborn instinctive skill of sensing coming mishap. Moreover, unlike to animals human beings have also lost the capability of sensing natural calamities prior to their happening. We are no more sensitive against even the greatest geographic changes that can cause natural calamities like earthquake, volcanic explosions, cyclone or tsunami. Animals are still capable of smelling and sensing the probable natural catastrophic changes. Cattle, dogs and birds behave unnatural and start rushing away helter-skelter prior to natural calamities like earthquake or tsunami. In many cases of such events many of us confess after the incident that they underwent abnormal and unpleasant mental stage prior to the incident. Though they did sense the calamity but could not exactly make out anything definite out of these intuitive abnormal experiences. Many of us can be seen analyzing and comparing the occurred tragedy with their dreams. A meticulous contemplation over all the aspects of the adversary being faced by us will compel many of us to draw the conclusion that the occurred unexpected situation is out of our lingering desire to achieve many objects simultaneously. In almost every situation we are the creator of so-called unpleasant and undesired circumstances, which in long turn lead us to the fulfillments of our long desired targets.
When you get lost something and inspite of your overwhelming search the thing remain untraced keep the following points in mind: -

The thing you are searching for is of worth nothing for you presently or
The thing has turned worthless or

Existence/availability of the thing is making you deprived of many new achievements you are meant for or

You have engrossed in certain petty affairs and started ignoring many of your important tasks/assignments of your list of priorities. You start recovering and renovating the previous list as you proceed with your search for the lost item. The various items you come across remind you about your previous priorities and commitments or

You may be awarded with a new finding, which you required significantly or

This search for the lost property can refresh your dull energy by recovering a most desired previously lost item


When you are interrupted as you tend to do a work

All the interruption, obstacle, disturbance, impediments, unexpected cause of break, undesired cause of pause, disruption, stoppage while tending to make a movement for an assignment or work must be taken cautiously as it may be a instinctive signal to have a second thought for the proposed temptation for doing a work.

The interruption may mean to save the man from humiliation or loss or damage, which can happen doing the work.

Frequent barricades or regular interruption while doing an assignment is to mean to ignore the work or change the idea or wait for the right opportunity or have alternative arrangement.
A fruitful and right work is one that moves smoothly without any interruption or requires least effort

                    Harsh M Krishnatrey

Personality Clash and Astrology

Similar rasis (lunar zodiac sign as par Hindu astrology) have both the elements- constructive if tuned or destructive if untuned. There seems no midway arrangement. Each of the arrangements is with extreme consequences. The oldest epic Ramayana (written by Valmiki) is based on the legendry personality of Ram and Ravana. Though bears similar first letter in their name i.e. “R” yet had historical irretrievable clash, which ended with the death of latter. Similarly, the greatest epic” Mahabharata” narrates the story of uncompromising Krishna and Kansa. Every honest attempt of negotiation initiated by Lord Krishna proved futile and ultimately reached the unending clashes to a closure with the elimination of Kansa. The story of Mahabharata further proceeds and turned into a battlefield that can be equated with a world war. It was, in true sense of its nature, First World War fought in 1000 B.C. The root cause of the war was personality clash between Draupadi, Duryodhana, and Dhritrashtra i.e. all with similar initials. In the background of the war it was Draupadi who incited and provoked Duryodhana for the devastating consequences. Duryodhana was an ambitious and adamant contender of the throne. Judas connived with the Jews and paved the way for the crucification of Jesus. Jesus, Jews and Juda all bears similar initials. Gandhi was killed by Godse. Jawahar (J.L. Nehru) had clash with Jinna and resulted in the bifurcation of the country. America got mistuned with Afghanistan Taliban collapsed. America vs Afghanistan, Iran Vs Iraq, Korea (N) Vs Korea (s), America Vs Osma Bin Laden {A, aa, au, o, i, ee. u (as in umbrella and unicorn) all should be considered similar letter}. it’s worth mentioning that A, Ha and “sa” are same sounds. There are people who are unable to pronounce Ha and they pronounce “ha” as “a”or “ii” “sa” and vice versa. The state of India “Assam” is spoken as “ahom” in Assam. Similarly the River Sindhu-(in Sanskrit) is pronounced as “Hindu” be Persian and Indu- by Greeks. Likewise, Pa, Pha, Ba, Bha too have been derived from the same root. Baharat vs Pakistan Vs Bengladesh. British vs Bhagat Singh, the relationships like Pati (Mr) vs Patni (Mrs), Pita vs Putra, Bhai (brother) vs Bhai are sound and constructive if tuned, but devastating if untuned. If untuned, then there is no way of harmony. These will end to extremes like separation or elimination of one of them. Pramod Mahajan. The shining prominent leader of BJP in India was killed by his brother Pravin, i.e. clash between two similar initials resulted into devastating end. Krishna/Kanhaiya stood against Kamsa and kaurava and fought in Kurukshetra (now Karnal). He supported Kuntiputra pandavas. He was popular as karuna ki murti, kamalnayanam, karuna ka sagar, gopal, govinda, govardhandhari, cow (gai), Gau rukshak, gvala,
Man mohan, mohini murat, makhan chaur, mayavi, Mathura, Mahabharat,

to be continued.....